“An obstacle is often a stepping stone.” ~Prescott
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The Law of Attraction & Noticing Coincidental Coincidences
Did you ever think of a long lost friend and then their name comes up in conversation or they reach out to you? Or maybe you had a thought about one of your favorite television shows and then all of a sudden that exact episode is airing on TV?
These are just some examples of coincidental coincidences. Things that happen in your life that you may chalk up to be a coincidence but in reality it is presenting itself to you as a manifestation of your own thoughts.
Pay attention to this because it proves to you that you are always attracting your thoughts into your life. This can happen for small or large coincidences, as the law of attraction is always working.
As seen on Joe Robinson
Something you may perceive as negative may happen and the moment it does, the thoughts that attracted it to you comes to your surface. You realize that you got exactly what you were thinking about. This should remind you to be careful of what you are thinking about as the law of attraction is always working.
Like if you are nervous about failing a test and worrying about it, you are actually attracting the act of failure into your life. Then when you get your grade back and see the failing grade, you may say to yourself, “Man, I knew that was going to happen!!!”
Does this sound familiar in other areas of your life? Saying, “I knew that was going to happen!”? Well, you knew because unintentionally you drew that into your life with your very own thoughts.
As seen on IZ Quotes
I remember when I first started dating my husband. I was only practicing the law of attraction for about a year at that time and because I am so passionate about it, I tell everyone I meet how to harness their power.
It’s not an easy subject to approach with some people because ultimately you have to be willing to hear about it when the time is right for you.
So I happened to be at a bar with my new guy and I remember it like it was yesterday. Someone had walked in and he leaned in and told me how strange it was that this person just walked in. He said that he had just thought about her the other day and hadn’t seen her in years.
I looked at him, with eyes wide open and a huge smile on my face and proclaimed, “That’s the law of attraction!” We went outside for a more private conversation where I explained how his thoughts attracted this into his life.
I knew from that moment on, that he was now a believer. You can ask him (and one day I promise I will have him write a guest post) how his life dramatically changed for the better from that point on.
As seen on The Adventures of Lesalina
Start noticing the coincidental coincidences in your life as proof that your thoughts attract things into your life. As you notice this happen more and more, you will begin to think more positively about your power.
You will begin to attract more things into your life. And as you think more positively, you will start seeing bigger and better things come into your life as your thoughts will be in true vibration with the law of attraction.
Until next time, Have a Magical Day!
With Love xoxo 🙂
Law of Attraction Challenge #6: Learn How To Do EFT Tapping & Use It This Week
EFT, Emotional Freedom Techniques, is a wonderful energy psychology tool that often works when nothing else does. It is an emotional version of acupuncture but there are no needles involved–it is totally non-invasive, gentle, portable and can be learned by anyone, even children.
What you are doing with EFT is mentally tuning into specific issues such as pain or memories that evoke negative emotions, and then stimulating certain energy meridian points on the body by tapping on them with your fingertips.
Our bodies are “electrical” in nature, and just like the wiring in your house, our bodies have circuits that energy flows through. Have you ever plugged too many things into one outlet and blown a fuse then had to go to the electrical panel and flip the breaker back? Well, the circuits in our bodies can get overwhelmed too, preventing the smooth flow of energy–essentially causing a blown fuse.
Those headaches you always get that interfere with your daily life, the intense sensation of butterflies in your stomach anytime you have to speak to a group of people, the anger you always feel and don’t know why–these can all be the result of a disruption in your energy system. EFT is what we use to “flip the breaker” on our preverbal “blown fuses”–it’s like a Do-Over switch…it’s magical and I am in love with it!
Please check out the Youtube video included here to learn the basics of tapping–you will be surprised how quickly you can learn how to use it!
After becoming familiar with tapping, try to use it this week! It is your Law of Attraction Challenge this week! Try it for anything! Try tapping before you go to bed, when things are quiet and you can take a few minutes for yourself. Please let us know how it goes for you and about your results!
If you are interested in working with someone, I am an EFT practitioner and would love to work with you! Please email me at Mary@talesofmagicality.com
Here’s to Tap, Tap, Tapping!
Magicality Moment #19: Sweet Dreams of Magicality
Dreaming goes hand in hand with getting in tune with your inner child.
Let your dreams influence your law of attraction make-believe. Dream big because that’s what dreams are, what dreams should be. But dreams do come true so don’t sell your dreams short!
We are all special and akin with one another; if someone else can live the life of their dreams, you can too!
When Rancid Lemons Produce Delicious Lemonade…
Have you ever had what you thought was a “bad” circumstance turn out to lead you to something incredibly positive and opportunistic?
It is easy to get caught up in the negative when you feel it is being piled on you and that you are starting to sink but when you refuse to be weighed down by situations that are testing your strength of positivity, often the greatest clarity and solutions to unanswered questions arise.
This happened in my life a few months ago. My son was having terrible anxiety about getting on the bus in the morning—it was a new routine for him since we used to walk to school in our old house. I have been using EFT tapping for about 5 years; it is a stress-relief tool that is a cousin of acupuncture, you tap on the end-points of the energy meridians on your body which helps to balance your energy system and bring you peace. I was tapping with my son, which brought him some relief but I was apparently having trouble getting to the core issue that was causing him to still be upset at times.
As seen on Help Me Grow…
I decided to look into finding an EFT Practitioner that perhaps specialized in working with children; I thought it might be worth paying a professional to help him clear this problem once and for all. I hated seeing him so distressed and upset.
While looking on the Internet, I found only two practitioners that fulfilled this request. To my surprise, one was located in NY, close to where we live (it is not necessary to tap with someone in person—it can be done over the phone, or Skype as well). While checking out her website, I came to a page that said she was holding a 3-Day EFT Workshop for FREE and I hadn’t missed it! I was so incredibly excited! I had never been to a workshop and been surrounded by other people who love tapping as much as I do!
As seen on Tap Into EFT…
It also said that attending this workshop would count toward some of the requirements for becoming an EFT practitioner, if you chose to do that. While I have truly loved EFT since the first time I used it years ago, and it has made a remarkable difference in my life that I am incredibly grateful for, I had never really allowed myself to seriously consider being a practitioner…until now.
In the end, while my son’s anxiety wasn’t a good thing, I am grateful for it because it has enabled me to pursue this passion of mine and it is turning out to be something that I am naturally good at. I am almost done with all of the requirements to be a Certified EFT Practitioner! Plus, Bo’s anxiety seemed to melt away as well…icing on the Magicality cake!
As seen on EMSI…
So, when life throws you a curve ball, or hands you some rancid lemons, don’t assume it will be your third strike or that the lemons are “bad” and deserve to be thrown away, follow that swing through to the end cause it may turn out to be a home run that you hit, or the lemonade that quenches your thirsty soul like nothing else ever!
Here’s to bad pitches sent over the fence and surprisingly delicious lemonade made from rotten lemons!
Inspirational Law of Attraction Quote #19
“If opportunity doesn’t knock, build a door.” ~Milton Berle
Feelings of Being Fat Hold You Back from Your Ideal Weight
Have you struggled with your weight? Perhaps recently or what feels like your entire life? Do you pass by the mirror and put yourself down? Call yourself ‘mean girl’ names like fat and ugly?
Have you tried countless diets from Atkins to Weight Watchers and maybe even the Cabbage Soup diet? You may take off the weight at first and then find yourself right back where you were, if not heavier!
You are not alone!
As seen on Ignite Beauty Coach
What you didn’t know in the past is that most of what you do to lose weight happens in your mind. So when you start losing weight, you begin to feel good about yourself. These good feelings draw in more feelings of feeling good and aid in your weight loss journey. Then, there is a moment where you may double guess how you are looking.
Maybe you get comfortable with your loss and then indulge a bit in some not so healthy foods. This makes you feel pretty crappy about yourself and your weight loss efforts.
And so a negative destructive cycle begins for you.
Then you figure you may as well continue to indulge and soon you’ve gained maybe 5-10 pounds back. Then your old thought pattern creeps right back into your mind.
You see yourself in the mirror and are the meanest person in the world. You call yourself fat, ugly and maybe even a failure. Perhaps you feel worthless and tell yourself that.
When in your new clothes (the ones you got to reward yourself for all of your hard work and efforts) start feeling a bit snug, it begins reinforcing your thoughts.
So you continue on being so mean to yourself until out of the blue you are back in your fat jeans and maybe needing to buy an even bigger size.
Does this sound familiar at all?
Well, what you didn’t know then that I am about to share with you is that your mind is controlling how you look. If you are caught up in fat feelings, you will always draw that back into your life.
Feelings of being fat actually attracts just that into your life. If you feel fat, you will start developing unhealthy patterns that provides to your life what you are asking for.
Conversely, feelings of being thin will draw more feelings of being thin into your life. Yo-yo dieters know both feelings but if you have the belief that you will always have to diet, then you will always gain back your weight once it is lost.
This is why your weight loss happens and then weight gain comes back. It is a pattern that is feeding off your state of mind.
So now that you know this (and recognition is the first step to change), you CAN take the appropriate steps to changing your old patterns. You can finally free yourself from a lifetime of dieting and be happy with who you are today, right now.
The next time you see yourself, practice positive self-talk. Tell yourself how beautiful you are. Believe how beautiful you are. Tell yourself how thin you are and how much you love your body.
Make this a habit every day, several times a day, to repeat this positive self-talk to yourself. Even if you don’t believe it right at this moment, through daily repetition it will sink in to your subconscious how incredibly amazing and attractive you are.
Then when you feel so good about yourself, you can begin your journey to life time weight loss using the law of attraction. Now you can envision yourself in your dream body.
Hold this vision firmly in your mind and it will appear in your life in no time. Imagine what it feels like to be your ideal weight and body type. Feel the feelings you have being there. Then Just have faith. You will succeed!!
Until next time, Have a Magical Day!
With Love xoxo 🙂
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