Changing Your Words to Attract Your Best Life

12.23.13 Green Light

“I Always…!”

Do you find yourself using this statement?  For example, do you find yourself saying things like, “I always get stuck in traffic”, “I always get all the red lights” or “This always happens!”

When you say these type of statements, you are creating a pattern in your life, whether you realize it or not.  Because you say “always”, the universe will seek to make that happen for you every time to no avail.

So I challenge you today to start recognizing when you say these statements.  The moment those words either come out of your mouth or enter into your thoughts, I want you to immediately make the statement a past tense.

You will now consciously say, “I used to get stuck in traffic”, “I used to get all of the red lights” or “This used to happen!” 

As seen on Forbes

As seen on Forbes

After making these past-tense statements, you cancel out your old mantra.  You can now replace them with a positive ‘always’ statement to create a life that you would find more pleasurable.

Your new ‘always’ statements can sound like, “I always have a smooth, easy ride”, “I always get green lights” or “I always have this positive thing happen!”

When I first started doing this, the traffic or the red lights or whatever I was ‘alwaysing’ about didn’t go away right away.  My belief was so deep and engrained in my subconscious, that it took some practice and effort on my part to start getting the smooth rides and green lights.

As seen on The Talent Notes

As seen on The Talent Notes

You may have to put some effort into this also, but I promise you it will be worth it.  Keep repeating this process until your old belief system is now recreated to a positive belief system.  You will see your world begin to change and things get so much easier for you.

Until next time, Have a Magical Day!

With Love xoxo 🙂

Attract Compliments and Accept Them With Positivity

12.18.13 Compliments

If you are like me, it always makes me feel good when I receive a compliment—my hair looks great, I look like I lost weight, that color brings out the color of my eyes, etc.

Recently, I’ve become aware that whenever I receive a compliment, I have trouble just accepting it; unfortunately, I always say thank you and then I usually go and negate the positive remark with a negatively charged comment.

For example, someone recently complimented me on my hair, telling me that they loved my curls.  While I was appreciative of the comment, and thanked the person, I didn’t leave it at that.  I began to explain how the weather was making it kind of frizzy that day and how I really needed to get my color done because my roots are so long.  Essentially, I went and totally ruined the comment with all my negative retorts.

But, I am not going to get down on myself for being negative when I receive a compliment.  Instead, I am going to be appreciative of the fact that I became aware, on my own, of the way I was handling compliments and that I am now making a conscious effort to be grateful for the comment and simply say, “thank you for the compliment,” and leave it at that; I am not going to allow that sabotaging negative voice in my head push its way through and out my mouth.

By receiving the compliments you get with warmth and positivity, your energy expresses to the Universe that you enjoy receiving compliments and your positivity will attract more circumstances, a.k.a compliments, to keep this positive cycle flowing.

So, the next time someone compliments you, be aware of your reaction.  Did you follow your thank you with a negative response?  Did you say thank you but then think the negative response only to yourself, which equals the same thing as saying it out loud.  Or were you just grateful for the compliment and let the positive energy wash over you? Your reaction will determine whether compliments flow freely to you, or slip-slide away.

I’m proud of your wonderful acceptance-of-compliment skills! Keep up the good work! (wink)

Using Positive Self Talk to Attract Your Desires

11.18.13 Girl in mirror

Be careful of how you talk to yourself, because guess what?  You are listening!  And you know who else is listening?  The Universe!  You have an inner dialogue with yourself on a daily basis.

In some areas of your life you may have a very positive dialect with yourself.  But like many people, you may have certain areas where you put yourself down and don’t treat yourself like you would treat a good friend or anyone that you loved, for that matter.

Ask yourself if you would tell someone you loved what negative thoughts you feed to yourself.  The answer is you wouldn’t but for some reason you keep treating yourself so mean!

Today is the day to STOP this behavior.  Recognition is the first step to change.  You will hear me say this a lot.  Now that you have recognized your negative self-talk, you have reached your first step to changing it.

“What do you mean negative self-talk?”, you ask.

Some examples can be, “I am so fat!  I can’t believe how fat I am!” or “You are worthless.  You can never do anything right!” or “I always make mistakes!” or “I am a horrible person.  I have no friends because I am unlikable!”

These examples may be what you are currently telling yourself on a daily basis, or it could be not as bad or perhaps worse.  Whatever you are telling yourself, you are instructing the universe to bring you more events and circumstances in your life to feel that way.

It becomes a vicious cycle that repeats itself over and over.  Like if you have a desire to get healthy and lose weight, but continue to tell yourself how fat you are, the universe will create that for your life.  You will always be fat until you can believe and tell yourself how healthy and thin you are.

As seen on Pick the Brain

As seen on Pick the Brain

Start recognizing your negative self-talk and replace it with the polar opposite positive self-talk.  This will change your belief system and set into motion for the universe to send you what you are asking for.

Remember to speak to yourself with love and positivity so that you can attract into your life just that!  As you change the way you think about that particular area of your life, you will see your life change to coincide with your new thoughts.

Until next time, Have a Magical Day!

With Love xoxo 🙂