Confronting Your Negative Emotions to Attract Better Things Into Your Life: Part 1

2.24.14 Man with good and bad on shoulder

As you have read over and over in my blogs, I always say that recognition is the first step to change.  If you recognize that something’s stressing out you need to confront it.

If you try to think of positive thoughts and that doesn’t help you change your frame of mind and flip your Magicality Magnet, then try to do something that always gets you in a good, positive mood.

If doing that action still doesn’t get your thoughts back to positive, you may need to delve further into what’s bugging you to finally move past the negative thoughts.

If you ignore this, it may always come up for you over and over when you least expect it.  And when that happens, it blocks you from really attracting all that you desire.

So today, I am going to teach you how to perform something called a Negativity Analysis.  I learned how to do this process when I took the courses on my Law of Attraction Practitioner Certification.

Before learning this, I allowed some negative thoughts reoccur over and over.  Now that I know how to do this, it changed my life, as well as many others that I have taught.

And today, you are going to learn how to perform your own negativity analysis.

Here are the Steps:
Step 1:

Go to a quiet place where you will not be distracted.

Step 2:

Sit down and ask yourself:

Why am I unhappy? What is making me unhappy at this moment?  

Ex: If you are stressed say “I am extremely stressed right now because ______”

If you are angry say “I am extremely angry right now because _________”.

Identify the negative emotion you are feeling and the cause of the emotion.

Step 3:

After identifying the emotion, keep it with you and embrace it as you come face to face with it.  Describe the negative emotion in visual terms (shape, size, color, smell).  What does it look like?  What does it feel like?  Allow it to show itself to you until you can completely describe it.

Step 4:  

As you have recognition of the negative emotion or experience it will slowly begin to disappear. Before it can completely go, however, you have to let it speak to you.  Don’t be afraid. Just let it speak and learn from what it is telling you. Once you have learned from these negative emotions they no longer have a place in your mind and body and therefore will disappear.

You will have an amazing feeling overcome you as you release these negative emotions.  And sometimes, the negative emotions are so deeply ingrained within you that it may take several times of repeating this analysis before you can complete all of these steps.

But trust the process.  Even if it does take you multiple times, it will happen.  Next week I will explain my first experience using this analysis for my own life so stay tuned!

Until next time, Have a Magical Day!

With Love xoxo 🙂

The Law of Attraction & Noticing Coincidental Coincidences

2.10.14 Coincidence

Did you ever think of a long lost friend and then their name comes up in conversation or they reach out to you?  Or maybe you had a thought about one of your favorite television shows and then all of a sudden that exact episode is airing on TV?

These are just some examples of coincidental coincidences.  Things that happen in your life that you may chalk up to be a coincidence but in reality it is presenting itself to you as a manifestation of your own thoughts.

Pay attention to this because it proves to you that you are always attracting your thoughts into your life.  This can happen for small or large coincidences, as the law of attraction is always working.

As seen on Joe Robinson

As seen on Joe Robinson

Something you may perceive as negative may happen and the moment it does, the thoughts that attracted it to you comes to your surface.  You realize that you got exactly what you were thinking about.  This should remind you to be careful of what you are thinking about as the law of attraction is always working.

Like if you are nervous about failing a test and worrying about it, you are actually attracting the act of failure into your life.  Then when you get your grade back and see the failing grade, you may say to yourself, “Man, I knew that was going to happen!!!”

Does this sound familiar in other areas of your life?  Saying, “I knew that was going to happen!”?  Well, you knew because unintentionally you drew that into your life with your very own thoughts.

As seen on IZ Quotes

As seen on IZ Quotes

I remember when I first started dating my husband.  I was only practicing the law of attraction for about a year at that time and because I am so passionate about it, I tell everyone I meet how to harness their power.

It’s not an easy subject to approach with some people because ultimately you have to be willing to hear about it when the time is right for you.

So I happened to be at a bar with my new guy and I remember it like it was yesterday.  Someone had walked in and he leaned in and told me how strange it was that this person just walked in.  He said that he had just thought about her the other day and hadn’t seen her in years.

I looked at him, with eyes wide open and a huge smile on my face and proclaimed, “That’s the law of attraction!”  We went outside for a more private conversation where I explained how his thoughts attracted this into his life.

I knew from that moment on, that he was now a believer.  You can ask him (and one day I promise I will have him write a guest post) how his life dramatically changed for the better from that point on.

Start noticing the coincidental coincidences in your life as proof that your thoughts attract things into your life.  As you notice this happen more and more, you will begin to think more positively about your power.

You will begin to attract more things into your life.  And as you think more positively, you will start seeing bigger and better things come into your life as your thoughts will be in true vibration with the law of attraction.

Until next time, Have a Magical Day!

With Love xoxo 🙂

 

Generosity is the Key to Abundance in Your Life

1.6.14 Hands Giving Heart

The more you give the more you get.  This is a huge part of the law of attraction in manifesting the life that you desire.  As you give more, you will see more unfold in your life for you.

You ask, “What if I don’t have anything to give?”  There is always something that you can find to give, whether it be your money or simply just your time.  There is always someone or a cause less fortunate than yourself that you can help in some way.

As seen on Restore Church

As seen on  Restore Church

I know giving when it seems that you don’t have much may scare you, but believe in this aspect of the law of attraction and watch your world change. 

I used to think that I would wait until a certain time or pay day to give.  Sometimes I would be asked to donate to certain charities or causes and it would not give me a good feeling.  The reason for this was because during that time in my life I was not living a life of Magicality.

I was not in align with the wonderful universe and therefore I couldn’t grasp the notion of giving, especially because I didn’t have much in my life at that time.

Then when I discovered what the law of attraction was and the concept of giving, it opened my eyes and changed my world.  Now I give.  I give my time to those in need and I donate money to causes that mean a lot to me.

Now giving has become second nature and the feeling I get for it is truly amazing.  When you give, it makes you feel INCREDIBLE!  It makes you feel alive.  And when you feel so incredible, guess what?  You are sending out signals to the universe to present you with more opportunities to feel incredible about!!!

Ultimately, by giving, you are starting an amazing cycle in your life that will continue on and on and on.  The more you give, the more you receive.  It is simple as that.

Don’t give just because a book or a blog (like this one) recommends you to do so.  Really believe in the cause of your time or money.  This should become a passion of yours and should fill you with joy and excitement.  Really invest in what you’re investing in.

It really is a spectacular thing.  You will see doors open for you where there was once only walls, as the famous quote goes.  Your world will change and so will the way you feel about giving.

As seen on The God Article

As seen on The God Article

Please share your experiences with us by commenting below.  We’d love to hear how giving has changed your life!

Until next time, Have a Magical Day!

With Love xoxo 🙂

Laissez Faire Lifestyle: An Often Overlooked Aspect of the Law of Attraction

11.20.13 Laissez Faire

Some of you may remember hearing the term “Laissez-Faire” in your high school history and economics classes.  This French term dates back to the 17th century but became more common in English-speaking countries in the late 18th century.  There are many interpretations of its definition.

Economically speaking, the term would mean “leave it be,” and encourages little restrictions by the government on economic transactions between private parties, or a “hands-off” approach.

In the Magicality sense, Laissez-Faire means not interfering with the universe; let it do its job, follow the signs it presents to you and it will lead you on the path you are meant to be on.

As seen on Helpful

As seen on Helpful

Be detached and objective.  Don’t worry about all the possibilities and the “what ifs.”  Don’t try to plan things out too much or try to make things happen.  Have faith in this natural system; let go of worry and let the universe figure it out for you!

By not getting in the way of the universe, and therefore yourself, you are enabling the incredible power of the universe and human potential to be unleashed!  All you need to do is set the intention of what you would like to have, or have happen, and then intervene as little as possible until it is time to act on the opportunities that are presented to you.

And, don’t worry, they will come when the time is right, but you must be aware of them!  It may be in an unexpected way, because the universe loves to test our intuitive abilities and make sure our senses are tuned into everything around us, but everything we hope will happen, will happen!

Follow the signs of Magicality because they will never steer you wrong!

Peace, and may Laissez Faire be with you!