The Importance of Addressing Limiting Beliefs in Order to Attract Your Desires

4.2.14 Limiting BeliefsHave you ever wanted something so badly—to hit a home run, to win that certain prize at a raffle, to attract more clients at work—but 9 times of out 10 you don’t get what you hope for? Even when you used visualization to FEEL what it is like to have those things already, and you imagine and SPEAK as if they are already true facts, why are your wishes still not fulfilled most of the time?

The reason is because you don’t truly BELIEVE you can have, or deserve, or can be what you are aiming for. It is your belief system that gets in the way of your goals.  Essentially, you are TELLING the Universe what you want while exuding an energy that is contradictory.

Feeling is the language of the soul, so if you have any doubts about accomplishing your ultimate goals, those doubts will be expressed in your feelings, or subconscious beliefs. Those limiting beliefs you have will affect your end result, which will probably be you not getting what you want.

Your subconscious limiting beliefs will affect your feelings, which will then affect your actions. While dreaming about your ideal end result is great, if you don’t take proactive steps toward attaining your goals and fulfilling your desires, you are preventing positive outcomes for yourself.  But, if your heart really doesn’t believe you can attain what you want, your actions will be full of trepidation, fear, negativity, and dubiousness.

To address your negative, limiting beliefs such as, “I never win anything,” or “I can never get ahead,” or “There’s no way I can do this,” do some tapping to help clear those negative beliefs and fears and replace them with a new, positive perspective or try using a negativity analysis to address your lack of belief in yourself.

In the meantime, keep working on honing your awareness skills and acting on the signs of Magicality that present themselves to you in the form of sudden opportunities, “coincidental” meetings or new introductions, or internal guidance from within yourself.

We believe in you…it’s time you start really believing in yourself!

Here’s to creating UNlimited, positive beliefs!

 

 

How Becoming More Aware of Your Body Will Help You Attract What You Want

3.12.14 Body AwarenessHave you ever noticed how your body feels when you are watching a suspenseful or scary movie?  When I stop and tune into my body when I am watching a scary movie or a fight scene that I have to look away from, the muscles in my whole body are often clenched and tense; I am not in a relaxed, comfortable state.

What about when you are replaying in your mind a confrontation you may have had with a someone that you don’t see eye to eye with, have you ever taken notice of the way your body feels when you are saying all those negative, angry things in your head over and over?  If you haven’t, I suggest you try it.  It’s amazing what you will learn about the connection between your mind and body.

I first learned the importance of tuning into my body and being in the moment while reading The Power of Now, by Eckhart Tolle.  I was living in my old house at the time and, I kid you not, literally ever time, while laying in bed at night, when I would remember to tune into my body so that I could make sure it was relaxed, I would always hear the train that ran past our neighborhood about half a mile away, no matter what time of night it was.

Once it past the, “That’s a weird coincidence” state after this happened a hand full of times, I actually got to the point of expecting to hear the train as soon as I released all the tension I may have been holding in my body, tension I often had no idea was even there till I really took the time to check in with myself and see.  The train became a cool Sign of Magicality for me that I was really present, in the moment at that time, and I was grateful for and enjoyed its reminder.

As seen on Amazing Asset...

As seen on Amazing Asset…

Part of being able to attract what you want is being in the moment; when you are living in the past or wishing for the future, you are pushing things away from you.  Not being in the moment means you are ungrateful for the place you are in right now and that you have lost touch with yourself and your greater source.  You will not be able to attract your desires if you are not appreciative of the now and if you are disconnected from your body, your soul.

By taking a moment to really BE in your BODY, to let it speak to you by showing you what is going on with it—the pains, the tense muscles, your posture, whatever it is it has to share with you, you are making a conscious effort to reconnect with the Universe and it is when that connection is strong that the magic happens.

Start practicing taking a moment to stop, every so often, and see what is going on with your body.  Your body will instantly react to your thoughts and emotions, and vice versa…and, the Universe will instantly react to all of it!  So, take a deep breath, relax your body, flip your magnet so it is smiling and you will attract your desires!

Here’s to raising our awareness and reaping the benefits!

Law of Attraction Challenge #10: Perform a Negativity Analysis This Week

3.6.14 Challenge 10

This week, and last, Rayna wrote posts explaining how to do a Negativity Analysis.  Now we want you to try it!

Take some time this week, when you find yourself stressed about something or your mood turning sour–your Magnet essentially flipping–to ask yourself what it is that is truly bothering you, give a detailed description of the negative emotion involved and confront it, recognizing that it is there, accepting it and allowing it to dissolve.

For more information as to how to do this, check out Rayna’s detailed posts about performing a Negativity Analysis:

Confronting Your Negative Emotions to Attract Better Things Into Your Life: Part 1

Confronting Your Negative Emotions to Attract Better Things Into Your Life: Part 2

Let us know how it goes!  Good Luck!

Law of Attraction Challenge #6: Learn How To Do EFT Tapping & Use It This Week

2.7.2014 EFT

EFT, Emotional Freedom Techniques, is a wonderful energy psychology tool that often works when nothing else does.  It is an emotional version of acupuncture but there are no needles involved–it is totally non-invasive, gentle, portable and can be learned by anyone, even children.

What you are doing with EFT is mentally tuning into specific issues such as pain or memories that evoke negative emotions, and then stimulating certain energy meridian points on the body by tapping on them with your fingertips.

Our bodies are “electrical” in nature, and just like the wiring in your house, our bodies have circuits that energy flows through.  Have you ever plugged too many things into one outlet and blown a fuse then had to go to the electrical panel and flip the breaker back?  Well, the circuits in our bodies can get overwhelmed too, preventing the smooth flow of energy–essentially causing a blown fuse.

Those headaches you always get that interfere with your daily life, the intense sensation of butterflies in your stomach anytime you have to speak to a group of people, the anger you always feel and don’t know why–these can all be the result of a disruption in your energy system.  EFT is what we use to “flip the breaker” on our preverbal “blown fuses”–it’s like a Do-Over switch…it’s magical and I am in love with it!

Please check out the Youtube video included here to learn the basics of tapping–you will be surprised how quickly you can learn how to use it!

After becoming familiar with tapping, try to use it this week!  It is your Law of Attraction Challenge this week!  Try it for anything! Try tapping before you go to bed, when things are quiet and you can take a few minutes for yourself.  Please let us know how it goes for you and about your results!

If you are interested in working with someone, I am an EFT practitioner and would love to work with you!  Please email me at Mary@talesofmagicality.com

Here’s to Tap, Tap, Tapping!

Tuning into Your Morning Feelings Using the Law of Attraction

10.7.13 Woman Waking Up

Did you ever wake up and just feel in a bad mood?  Perhaps the events of the morning didn’t start out so good and your mood begins to spiral down from there.  You stub your toe, run out of toothpaste, then hit traffic on your way to work.  Your mood keeps getting worse and worse.

As seen on BipolarBurble

As seen on BipolarBurble

Does this sound familiar to you?

Unfortunately it happens to many people but you can stop this from happening again.  From the moment you wake up, you should start getting into the habit of having gratitude thoughts.  Your first thoughts should be those filled with love and gratitude.

Think of all of the things in life you are grateful for and feel how amazing it is to have those things.  This should fill you with positive energy to start off your day.

When you lay in bed think of these great thoughts that fill you with gratitude and happiness.  When you brush your teeth, think these thoughts.  When you are in the shower and getting ready, think happy thoughts.

Now, some days, before you make this a habit, you may forget to have this positive self-talk first thing in the morning.  On those days, you may notice a bad feeling or just feel ‘off’.

On these ‘off’ days, notice the not so good feeling and recognize this as a reminder that your Magicality Magnet is facing down.  This is a clear indication to yourself that you will only attract not so good circumstances to your life until you flip your magnet to Up, which will put you in a positive mood.

As long as your magnet is down and you aren’t feeling good, you will continue to attract more events and circumstances into your life that will cause more of those ‘off’ feelings.  Like in the example described above, if you stub your toe out of bed and allow that event to dictate the rest of your day, you will be confronted with more circumstances that cause you to be in a bad mood.

Conversely, if you wake up and feel refreshed, grateful, full of love and happy, the events in your day will ALL reflect these feelings.

As seen on Psychology Today

As seen on Psychology Today

Make a conscious decision to be in control of your life and what you attract into it.  Decide today to turn your thoughts and emotions to positive so that you attract just that into your life.

Until next time, Have a Magical Day!

With Love xoxo 🙂