The Importance of Addressing Limiting Beliefs in Order to Attract Your Desires

4.2.14 Limiting BeliefsHave you ever wanted something so badly—to hit a home run, to win that certain prize at a raffle, to attract more clients at work—but 9 times of out 10 you don’t get what you hope for? Even when you used visualization to FEEL what it is like to have those things already, and you imagine and SPEAK as if they are already true facts, why are your wishes still not fulfilled most of the time?

The reason is because you don’t truly BELIEVE you can have, or deserve, or can be what you are aiming for. It is your belief system that gets in the way of your goals.  Essentially, you are TELLING the Universe what you want while exuding an energy that is contradictory.

Feeling is the language of the soul, so if you have any doubts about accomplishing your ultimate goals, those doubts will be expressed in your feelings, or subconscious beliefs. Those limiting beliefs you have will affect your end result, which will probably be you not getting what you want.

Your subconscious limiting beliefs will affect your feelings, which will then affect your actions. While dreaming about your ideal end result is great, if you don’t take proactive steps toward attaining your goals and fulfilling your desires, you are preventing positive outcomes for yourself.  But, if your heart really doesn’t believe you can attain what you want, your actions will be full of trepidation, fear, negativity, and dubiousness.

To address your negative, limiting beliefs such as, “I never win anything,” or “I can never get ahead,” or “There’s no way I can do this,” do some tapping to help clear those negative beliefs and fears and replace them with a new, positive perspective or try using a negativity analysis to address your lack of belief in yourself.

In the meantime, keep working on honing your awareness skills and acting on the signs of Magicality that present themselves to you in the form of sudden opportunities, “coincidental” meetings or new introductions, or internal guidance from within yourself.

We believe in you…it’s time you start really believing in yourself!

Here’s to creating UNlimited, positive beliefs!



Confronting Your Negative Emotions to Attract Better Things Into Your Life: Part 2

3.3.14 Confronting


In last weeks post, you learned how to perform a Negativity Analysis on yourself to improve your thoughts, flip your magnet UP and to attract the life that you know you deserve.

I hope that this exercise has proven to help you in your journey and that you are confronting negative thoughts and are finally able to move past them.

When I first describe this process to some of my clients, I often get a little reservation and fear on doing this process.  So I find that sharing one of my own experiences can help them take the leap of faith in doing their own negativity analysis and ultimately will help you.

So today, I will describe to you in detail what my very first experience was like in an effort to help you along with your own process and self discovery.

My First Negativity Analysis:
To preface I was about 8 months pregnant at the time and woke up with a horrible Charlie horse and then had to use the restroom.  So as I laid back down I starting feeling anxious about this upcoming business call and I kept worrying it wasn’t going to be a good call.

So I decided to confront those feelings with the negativity analysis and here’s what happened.


So I was already in a quiet and dark place because it was the middle of the night.


So I focused on my fear and anxiety of this upcoming call.


Then I remembered I needed to describe it.  So I allowed my thoughts to lead me and I realized it was yellow and it was like a blob form and it smelled sour and then I touched it and it was squishy!


Then I waited for it to talk to me.  So I looked at it right on and just stared at it until it spoke to me.

It said that it was a defense mechanism to help me because it didn’t want to get rejected.  It said it’s just there for me just like my mom would protect me when I was little.

But then it said it realizes now that it’s expired (that’s why it smelled so sour) and it’s no longer needed because I come from greatness and I do great things.

It then disappeared.

As seen on HF

As seen on HF

It was such an incredible moment for me to find out why I’ve been so scared to move forward with my dreams and business calls like these.  It was because I was afraid of the potential rejection.  But because of this fear, I was setting myself up for rejection.

The next day my call actually went great—so much better than I had anticipated!  And I owed it all to my negativity analysis.

How was your first experience?  Please share by commenting below!  We would love to hear all about your analysis.

Until next time, Have a Magical Day!

With Love xoxo 🙂

Confronting Your Negative Emotions to Attract Better Things Into Your Life: Part 1

2.24.14 Man with good and bad on shoulder

As you have read over and over in my blogs, I always say that recognition is the first step to change.  If you recognize that something’s stressing out you need to confront it.

If you try to think of positive thoughts and that doesn’t help you change your frame of mind and flip your Magicality Magnet, then try to do something that always gets you in a good, positive mood.

If doing that action still doesn’t get your thoughts back to positive, you may need to delve further into what’s bugging you to finally move past the negative thoughts.

If you ignore this, it may always come up for you over and over when you least expect it.  And when that happens, it blocks you from really attracting all that you desire.

So today, I am going to teach you how to perform something called a Negativity Analysis.  I learned how to do this process when I took the courses on my Law of Attraction Practitioner Certification.

Before learning this, I allowed some negative thoughts reoccur over and over.  Now that I know how to do this, it changed my life, as well as many others that I have taught.

And today, you are going to learn how to perform your own negativity analysis.

Here are the Steps:
Step 1:

Go to a quiet place where you will not be distracted.

Step 2:

Sit down and ask yourself:

Why am I unhappy? What is making me unhappy at this moment?  

Ex: If you are stressed say “I am extremely stressed right now because ______”

If you are angry say “I am extremely angry right now because _________”.

Identify the negative emotion you are feeling and the cause of the emotion.

Step 3:

After identifying the emotion, keep it with you and embrace it as you come face to face with it.  Describe the negative emotion in visual terms (shape, size, color, smell).  What does it look like?  What does it feel like?  Allow it to show itself to you until you can completely describe it.

Step 4:  

As you have recognition of the negative emotion or experience it will slowly begin to disappear. Before it can completely go, however, you have to let it speak to you.  Don’t be afraid. Just let it speak and learn from what it is telling you. Once you have learned from these negative emotions they no longer have a place in your mind and body and therefore will disappear.

You will have an amazing feeling overcome you as you release these negative emotions.  And sometimes, the negative emotions are so deeply ingrained within you that it may take several times of repeating this analysis before you can complete all of these steps.

But trust the process.  Even if it does take you multiple times, it will happen.  Next week I will explain my first experience using this analysis for my own life so stay tuned!

Until next time, Have a Magical Day!

With Love xoxo 🙂