The POWER of WORRY to Attract What You DON’T Want

4.9.14 Your Worries are Powerful

Have you ever noticed how when you worry about something happening to you, that’s usually what happens? Doesn’t that stink!? And, unfortunately, that’s usually what we notice the most—the things we didn’t want happening, happening—even though we are constantly attracting good circumstances to us all the time too.

Take it from me, “the worry queen,” worry does no good! While I have been a worrier most of my life, I finally learned the hard way how powerful my worrying can affect me…physically.

Getting dressed up club style, platform heels and all, for my best friend’s bachelorette party in NYC, I kept stressing about falling and breaking an ankle or something while wearing my heels; I’m not one to wear heels more than a few times a year and this was one of those occasions. I even stuffed into the pockets of my coat my flip flops, my more usual style of footwear, in case my feet were killing me and I had to change my shoes.

Ass seen on Natalet...

Ass seen on Natalet…

One of the girls that was with us grabbed me by the shoulders as were getting ready to leave for the club and said, “Mar, you are not allowed to stress tonight! You are here to enjoy yourself and that is what you are going to do. Everything is going to be fine!” I thanked her for the reminder that snapped me out of my negative state and ended up having a great time dancing the night away till 5 am…without falling or tripping once.

It wasn’t until we got home that my worry magnet brought my worries to life, like there was a delay in the universe’s delivery system.

While stepping out onto the balcony when we got back to the apartment, with my flip flops on at that point, oddly enough, I fell on the side of my ankle and come to find out the next day, after being encouraged by my husband to go to the ER, that I fractured my ankle in 3 places; my first broken bone ever.

At first I didn’t make the connection between my thoughts only hours prior to my broken ankle and its actual “breaking point,” but once it dawned on me, I realized how powerful my worrying had been in attracting exactly what I was worrying about, exactly what I DIDN’T want to happen!

So, let my painful, drawn out experience be a lesson to you—whatever you focus on, whether it be a positive or negative thing, you will eventually manifest it in your life. It may not be as clear or severe as a broken bone, but the sooner you pay attention to the way you think and feel and act and the way things play out in your life, the sooner you will realize how powerful you truly are. Like any great king or queen, it is important to not abuse your power so don’t let negativity rule your mind, heart and soul because its power can make or “break” you! Haha

Here’s to the power of positive thought attracting happy things into our live

The Importance of Addressing Limiting Beliefs in Order to Attract Your Desires

4.2.14 Limiting BeliefsHave you ever wanted something so badly—to hit a home run, to win that certain prize at a raffle, to attract more clients at work—but 9 times of out 10 you don’t get what you hope for? Even when you used visualization to FEEL what it is like to have those things already, and you imagine and SPEAK as if they are already true facts, why are your wishes still not fulfilled most of the time?

The reason is because you don’t truly BELIEVE you can have, or deserve, or can be what you are aiming for. It is your belief system that gets in the way of your goals.  Essentially, you are TELLING the Universe what you want while exuding an energy that is contradictory.

Feeling is the language of the soul, so if you have any doubts about accomplishing your ultimate goals, those doubts will be expressed in your feelings, or subconscious beliefs. Those limiting beliefs you have will affect your end result, which will probably be you not getting what you want.

Your subconscious limiting beliefs will affect your feelings, which will then affect your actions. While dreaming about your ideal end result is great, if you don’t take proactive steps toward attaining your goals and fulfilling your desires, you are preventing positive outcomes for yourself.  But, if your heart really doesn’t believe you can attain what you want, your actions will be full of trepidation, fear, negativity, and dubiousness.

To address your negative, limiting beliefs such as, “I never win anything,” or “I can never get ahead,” or “There’s no way I can do this,” do some tapping to help clear those negative beliefs and fears and replace them with a new, positive perspective or try using a negativity analysis to address your lack of belief in yourself.

In the meantime, keep working on honing your awareness skills and acting on the signs of Magicality that present themselves to you in the form of sudden opportunities, “coincidental” meetings or new introductions, or internal guidance from within yourself.

We believe in you…it’s time you start really believing in yourself!

Here’s to creating UNlimited, positive beliefs!

 

 

Instead of Fear Leading You, Follow a Life of Faith

3.31.14 Field with beautful purple sky

Fear gives us what we don’t want and faith gives us what we do want in life. But often, we are driven by fear. That is a huge component of why we don’t get what we think we are asking for in our thoughts.

Maybe you have a business venture you want to go after but you’re afraid of leaving your current job. Maybe you want to take a class but are afraid of failure. Maybe you want to skydive but are afraid of your parachute not opening. Whatever the case may be for you…fear is holding you back.

So how do you push fear aside??

Great question! The only true way to do so is with Faith. Faith opens up doors for you where there was once only walls. Faith will move mountains to make things happen. Faith is your answer!

 

As seen on Bubblews

As seen on Bubblews

I just watched the movie Jobs about the life of Steve Jobs. He always had undeniable faith. Faith in himself and faith in the products he created. He knew that Apple would be a success. He didn’t love a fear-led life. He led a faith-led life.

Start believing in the universe fully and whole-heatedly. Know that when you ask for something that you will receive it. Know that fear is ego-driven and made up completely. For the most part, it is irrational thoughts.

If fear weren’t irrational, why would the #1 fear be public speaking?

Embrace your faith today and watch as your world begins to change. You’ll begin to do things that fear once held you back from doing. And it will be Amazing!! Trust that.

Trust the universe and most importantly trust in yourself.

Until next time, have magical moments! 🙂 xoxo

Confronting Your Negative Emotions to Attract Better Things Into Your Life: Part 2

3.3.14 Confronting

 

In last weeks post, you learned how to perform a Negativity Analysis on yourself to improve your thoughts, flip your magnet UP and to attract the life that you know you deserve.

I hope that this exercise has proven to help you in your journey and that you are confronting negative thoughts and are finally able to move past them.

When I first describe this process to some of my clients, I often get a little reservation and fear on doing this process.  So I find that sharing one of my own experiences can help them take the leap of faith in doing their own negativity analysis and ultimately will help you.

So today, I will describe to you in detail what my very first experience was like in an effort to help you along with your own process and self discovery.

My First Negativity Analysis:
To preface I was about 8 months pregnant at the time and woke up with a horrible Charlie horse and then had to use the restroom.  So as I laid back down I starting feeling anxious about this upcoming business call and I kept worrying it wasn’t going to be a good call.

So I decided to confront those feelings with the negativity analysis and here’s what happened.

STEP 1:

So I was already in a quiet and dark place because it was the middle of the night.

STEP 2:

So I focused on my fear and anxiety of this upcoming call.

STEP 3:

Then I remembered I needed to describe it.  So I allowed my thoughts to lead me and I realized it was yellow and it was like a blob form and it smelled sour and then I touched it and it was squishy!

STEP 4:

Then I waited for it to talk to me.  So I looked at it right on and just stared at it until it spoke to me.

It said that it was a defense mechanism to help me because it didn’t want to get rejected.  It said it’s just there for me just like my mom would protect me when I was little.

But then it said it realizes now that it’s expired (that’s why it smelled so sour) and it’s no longer needed because I come from greatness and I do great things.

It then disappeared.

As seen on HF

As seen on HF

It was such an incredible moment for me to find out why I’ve been so scared to move forward with my dreams and business calls like these.  It was because I was afraid of the potential rejection.  But because of this fear, I was setting myself up for rejection.

The next day my call actually went great—so much better than I had anticipated!  And I owed it all to my negativity analysis.

How was your first experience?  Please share by commenting below!  We would love to hear all about your analysis.

Until next time, Have a Magical Day!

With Love xoxo 🙂