Living the Law of Attraction…Magicality Magnet Style

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A very important component of Magicality is your Magicality Magnet. Your magnet has been with you ever since you were a baby, yet few of us realize it till much later in life, if at all.

If you are here reading this blog, you should consider yourself special since you essentially have a leg up in living a law of attraction lifestyle if you recognize, and respect, the power and potential your Magicality Magnet has in helping you manifest the life you want.

The relationship you have with your Magicality Magnet is cyclical; your magnet feeds off of and follows in the direction of your thoughts, actions and emotions while, at the same time, when you examine your thoughts, actions and emotions, you will get a clear indication of which direction your magnet is facing and whether it needs to be adjusted or not.

It’s “like attracts like”, so think happy, attract more happy; think angry, get more angry reflected back.

Negativity Magnet Cycle

And here’s the GREAT NEWS!  You have total control over your magnet just by controlling your thoughts!  Let me say that again, when you know your magnet must be facing down because you are obviously in a shitty mood, you can choose, right then and there, to flip it over so it is smiling again!

Positivity Magnet Cycle

Now, I know you are probably thinking, “I can’t just ‘change’ my mood so quickly like that? This sounds impossible!”  I know it may sound difficult, and believe me, less than 5 years ago, I would have totally scoffed at this advice myself. (I never bought into the whole, “put a smile on your face and it will make you feel better;” I looked at it as, “If I’m in a bad mood, I’m not going to cover it up with a fake smile.”)

But, in actuality, you aren’t faking anything—you are CHOOSING to change your thought patterns and there is nothing fake about that.  And, if I am able to snap myself out of a bad mood within minutes or hours, as apposed to days or months, like years ago, so can you!

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The key is remembering to be aware and ask yourself, “Which way is my magnet facing right now?” and flip accordingly.  You’ll be surprised how much easier it is to do than you think.  That’s what makes Magicality so magical!

Please share with us your Magicality Magnet flipping experiences; we would love to hear them!

Until next time, happy flipping!

Using Social Media to Attract Positivity into Your Life

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Are you a member of any social media websites or applications?  Have a Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, Instagram, Google+ or any other type of account?  If you answered yes to any of the above, then you may be setting yourself up for negativity.

One of my guilty pleasures is watching “The Real Housewives of New Jersey” on Bravo.  For some reason, this show captivates me.  One of the things I noticed is that they fight…..A lot!

As seen on PerezHilton.Com

As seen on PerezHilton.Com

A main reason for their fights is actually social media!  They are all members of Twitter and so many people that want to get a rise out of them interact using Twitter to do so.  They are consistently making negative comments and all of the housewives are feeding right into it.

They begin to believe these negative comments and allow it to control their emotions.  They allow the rumors and the rude comments to affect their quality of life.

Does this sound familiar to you?  Do you have a Facebook, Twitter, Instagram or Google+ feed filled with negativity?  Do you ever let what others say affect your current mood in a bad way?  When this happens, you are opening yourself up to attract more negative things to be unhappy about.

If you want to attract positivity into your life, you need to stop following anyone that consistently posts about negative things.  Block these people from your social media accounts so that you block the negative influencers.

10.21.13 positive magnet

Begin to surround yourself with positivity.  Do this by filling your feeds with positive posts.  Into the Law of Attraction & Magicality?  Start following pages that post all about it.  Anything that will put a smile on your face, should be what you are following.

If you remove the negative and replace it with positive from your Social Media accounts, then your thoughts will be consumed with positivity and that is what you will draw into your life.

My feeds are completely filled only with positive people, groups and businesses.  That way, when I log in I instantly am given a positive vibe for that moment that will lead me for the rest of my day.  Don’t you want to attract more positive to you also?  Start today!

Until next time, Have a Magical Day!

With Love xoxo 🙂

 

 

Attracting Positivity from Unexpected Places

10.16.13 Happy Lady in Grass

Is there a place that you dread to go to because it always seems to challenge your positivity?  Somewhere that the people all seem to have frowning Magnets and no matter how good you were feeling before you got there, you always seem to have your feel-good-feelings chipped away at instantly by this place and the people there?

For me, this place was Costco on Staten Island, NY (my old hometown).  I would rather cross the bridge and drive to New Jersey to go to Costco than cross the negativity threshold that was the Staten Island Costco parking lot.

Going there meant that I could expect to be surrounded by rude, self-centered people, a crazy parking lot and a fast paced, congested store that even Speedy Gonzales would have trouble navigating.  Are you getting the picture now?  Did a place like this come to mind for you?

As seen on Lifehack.org

As seen on Lifehack.org

In hindsight, I now realize how I was completely attracting this outcome to myself whenever I decided to go to that Costco.  I would let my Magicality Magnet immediately begin to teeter after making the decision to shop there.  It’s like my thoughts sent the signal to the movie projector worker to change the films from a happy shopping experience to the “I HATE THIS PLACE!” movie, and that’s exactly what I got, every time.

Unfortunately, at the time, I wasn’t as aware of my thoughts and the law of attraction like I am now so I just usually did my best to avoid that Costco.

I am in love with my new hometown; everyone is extremely friendly and, for the most part, do nothing but contribute to raising my, and my family’s, energy vibration.  Because everyone, everywhere, is so great, it really stands out when I go someplace that doesn’t seem to live up to those high standards.

This place in my new hometown would be Shoprite.  It seems that the times I’ve shopped in there, my positive vibes are not reflected back to me when I share a warm smile with someone I pass or speak politely when someone is in my way.  Instead, I get emotionless looks and people ignoring me.  And, oddly enough, my husband shared with me that he had similar experiences the times he had shopped there.  But, today was different.

Today, when I made my list and informed my husband that I would be running to the store, I set the intention of having a wonderful experience at Shoprite and my intentions were met with smiling magnets.

First, someone quickly pulled into a parking spot that I was going to take and when I began to drive by her, she quickly rolled down her window and apologized; her kind gesture put a smile on my face which then landed me a parking spot right in front of the store.  And the trip just got better from there; everyone was friendly, polite and exuded a brighter energy.  I was so happy to come home and update my husband on my wonderful Shoprite experience.

Let my example be a lesson for you to learn from.  Living the Law of Attraction, living Magicality, is an ongoing journey; we all evolve at our own speed.  It took me some time but I got here and so can you!  So set the intention for a good experience the next time you have to go to that place that tests your positivity, keep your spirits high and your Magnet smiling at everyone, and EXPECT something wonderful!

Happy Manifesting!